Recently, I stumbled upon an old photo of my eight-year-old self, beaming with joy, clutching a half-wrapped book titled Spanish for Kids. Was I genuinely thrilled to dive into the language? Maybe. Two decades later, my enthusiasm has waned (my Duolingo Owl would agree), but the memory captured in that photo feels distant and unremarkable.
In that same box of photos, though, were treasures of a different kind: snapshots from family vacations. As I flipped through them, memories came rushing back—not just of the images themselves but of the moments beyond the frame. Tossing Lucky Charms off a dock to feed ducks, hiking barefoot in Vermont and rinsing off in a cool river, and waiting in line for apple fritters at Martha’s Vineyard’s Back Door Donuts (a must-stop if you ever visit!). These unwrapped gifts, given without fanfare, became priceless treasures over time—far more enduring than any toy or gadget I ever received.
This idea resonates deeply in my own life today. Recently, our family has shifted to gifting trips with our children in lieu of traditional presents. Over Christmas, we spent a week in New York, exploring Central Park, attending shows, and simply enjoying each other’s company. Those shared moments of discovery and connection feel far more meaningful than anything that could have been wrapped up under the tree.
Don’t get me wrong—there were still a few presents under the tree. But each year, we’ve moved toward fewer gifts and leaned into spending time together in fun and unique places. This shift has been especially meaningful when we include grandparents. Watching my kids make memories with them and hearing them recount moments from our shared vacations is a joy I know we’ll all cherish for years to come.
Psychologists at Cornell University found that experiences bring people more happiness than possessions. While the excitement of a new item fades quickly, the memories of experiences linger, enriching our lives long after the moment has passed.
Gifting travel experiences offers something special: memories, growth, and connection.
Here’s why this approach to giving stands out:
Memories That Last a Lifetime
A toy or gadget might bring fleeting joy, but the memories created while exploring a new destination or trying something new are relived and cherished for years.
Personal Growth
Travel pushes us out of our comfort zones. It teaches resilience, cultural awareness, and adaptability—lasting lessons that shape us in ways no material item can.
Strengthened Connections
Shared experiences—navigating a new city, enjoying local food, or watching a sunset—forge bonds that deepen relationships in ways a material gift can’t replicate.
A New Perspective
Travel broadens horizons and fosters gratitude, helping us appreciate both the world’s diversity and the comforts of home.
In the end, while material gifts may bring short-term delight, the gift of travel offers something far more valuable: unforgettable experiences, lasting connections, and the opportunity to grow. It’s not just a gift—it’s an investment in memories and meaning that will be treasured forever.
So this year, why not skip the wrapping paper and give the gift of adventure?
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