Milestones, Bucket Lists, and Celebrations: The Girls’ Trips You Should Prioritize

Getting the Girls’ Trip Out of the Group Chat and Into Real Life

As a busy mom, one thing I’m constantly saying to my girlfriends is, Let’s get away. Sound familiar? I crave time to remember that I’m more than just a mom, and often, the best way to do that is with my closest friends. A few nights away, where we can put down the never-ending to-do lists and focus on ourselves, feels like a reset button.

But let’s be real—getting that conversation out of the group chat and into real life is a challenge. Coordinating schedules, picking a destination, and actually booking the trip can feel overwhelming. That’s why I make it a priority to have at least one trip on the calendar every year. Here are the types of getaways I never skip:

1. Milestone Birthdays

There’s nothing better than celebrating a big birthday with your best friends—whether it’s 30, 40, or 60. There’s something magical about reconnecting with the people who’ve known you forever, bringing back that youthful energy, and marking a new decade in a meaningful way.

This year, my sister is turning 40, and we’re celebrating with a weekend at the Von Trapp Family Lodge in Stowe. Cozy fires, mountain views, and plenty of laughter? Count me in.

2. Bucket List Trips

Not every trip needs to be with your family—some experiences are best shared with friends who truly get you. A wine week in France? A wellness retreat in Costa Rica? A food tour through Italy? These are the trips that don’t require compromise, just pure joy.

Picture this: You and your closest girlfriends staying in a château in Bordeaux, taking a cooking class with a local chef, and sipping wines that have been aged to perfection. Who’s coming with me?

3. Life Celebrations

We don’t celebrate life’s little victories enough. Maybe a friend just got through a tough year, landed a big promotion, or sent her youngest off to college. These moments deserve recognition.

A long weekend at a beachside resort—where you can unplug, read all the books, and simply be—is sometimes exactly what’s needed. A trip doesn’t have to be extravagant to be meaningful.

Make It Happen

The hardest part? Actually booking the trip. But trust me, once it’s on the calendar, you’ll never regret it. Grab your girlfriends, pick a date, and commit. Your future self will thank you.

So, where are you going this year? Let’s get that girls’ trip out of the group chat and into reality.